Happy Hyperness

My son is my whole world. His smile his sense of humor I’m proud of everything about him. He gives me joy every time I’m around him. I just hope I’m a good enough father for him. A father that will foster and catalyze his son into absolute greatness. It’s a tall task because matching his energy level is like running a marathon on fumes. But I wouldn’t have it any other way. Now before the gift of a child both parents have to deal with the pregnancy stage. Yes I said both parents!

To put it lightly my wife’s pregnancy with my son was very physically tough on her. Her non stop morning sickness didn’t subside until the third trimester. With the morning sickness came a daily dose of mood swings. What made the mood swings worse is when her mom was around. They communicated telepathically for the sole purpose to gang up on me. Every other day I would be kicked out because I would forget to turn off a light or missed a couple of dishes to wash. At the time I had two jobs to make sure I had enough money to prepare for the baby. Of course no matter how hard I worked my mother in law saw me as a deadbeat bum. Believe me she did everything in her power to gaslight my wife into believing this nonsense. However, I blocked all the noise and negative energy and pushed through. As the days were getting closer I was getting very very nervous. At least it was a c-section so no room for surprises. But when it is the day of it’s the largest most nerve wracking wait ever.

On top of me being super nervous, my boss at the time kept on blowing up my phone.He was a real jackass. Mind you I requested two weeks vacation for the birth of my son. So why the hell was he bothering me? I’ll tell you why because he was short handed at work. Obviously I told him off. He was so pathetic he even offered me cash. He put maximum effort in figuring out a way to get out of work. Coincidentally, my wife’s job also kept on calling her. This fact definitely made both of us nervous. The time finally came when they told her to come into the operating room. I had no idea I wouldn’t be allowed to go in until the c-section was finished. I was going insane with worry. I let out a big sigh of relief when I finally met my son. He was a very cute baby boy everyone was in awe. I could tell from day one that he was going to have very strong character.

As with everything in life the time seems to be going so fast. I really treasure being able to raise him. He has a very strong sense of humor and very very hyper. Not to mention super demanding. I definitely need to drink redline daily to keep up with him. Everyday seems to be a new adventure.Right now in his toddler years seems to be golden times. I’m in anticipation for what type of adult he will become. He is very outgoing and a definite story teller. He is at the beginning stage of developing his charisma. I consider myself the luckiest man alive to be apart of his life and I will do anything for him.